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Making Every Day A New Beginning
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Don’t let your past dictate your future. No mistake or decision from your past can keep you from all that God wants to do in your life. Your best days are still ahead, and together we can make a difference in this world with the message of God's hope and love. To give visit JoelOsteen.com/GiveHope See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Thanks for listening to 0:01:34.080 --> 0:01:36.800 our podcast and thanks for supporting the ministry. 0:01:36.959 --> 0:01:39.319 If you enjoy today's message, why don't you be a 0:01:39.319 --> 0:01:40.880 blessing and share it with a friend. 0:01:41.200 --> 0:01:43.880 We appreciate you and pray put God's very best in 0:01:43.959 --> 0:01:48.080 your life. 0:01:55.520 --> 0:01:58.520 Well, God bless you. Thank you so much for tuning 0:01:58.560 --> 0:02:00.160 in today. We love you. 0:02:00.480 --> 0:02:02.760 We know that God has good things in store for you, 0:02:02.840 --> 0:02:04.560 and we come with good news. 0:02:05.080 --> 0:02:07.720 Is telling them earlier how God rewards. 0:02:07.160 --> 0:02:09.360 People that seek after Him and I know that's you, 0:02:09.440 --> 0:02:11.840 or you wouldn't even be tuned in today, So thanks 0:02:11.880 --> 0:02:14.280 for stopping by, and I hope you fe're ever in 0:02:14.360 --> 0:02:16.359 our area, you'll come be a part of one of 0:02:16.360 --> 0:02:18.480 our services. We'll make you feel right at home. But 0:02:18.639 --> 0:02:20.679 glad to have you with us today. And I like 0:02:20.760 --> 0:02:22.600 to start each week with something kind of funny. So 0:02:22.919 --> 0:02:25.560 somebody told me this one was this man. He was 0:02:25.600 --> 0:02:28.520 a Southern Baptist man by the name of Bill. He 0:02:28.600 --> 0:02:31.200 loved to sneak away to the horse tracks and bet. 0:02:31.760 --> 0:02:34.000 And one day, after losing almost all of his money, 0:02:34.160 --> 0:02:37.240 he noticed this priest stepped out onto the tracks and 0:02:37.280 --> 0:02:40.399 blessed this horse. And he watched very curiously, and sure 0:02:40.480 --> 0:02:43.480 enough that horse won first place. The next race, the 0:02:43.520 --> 0:02:46.240 priest blessed another horse, and again he won. And so 0:02:46.360 --> 0:02:48.520 Bill ran back to the ATM machine got all his 0:02:48.600 --> 0:02:51.560 money out, and the next time, the priest not only 0:02:51.800 --> 0:02:55.360 touched the horse's forehead, but he touched his eyes, his ears, 0:02:55.440 --> 0:02:57.880 and all of his hoofs. And Bill was so confident 0:02:57.919 --> 0:03:00.160 he bet all of his money on that horse. But 0:03:00.200 --> 0:03:03.440 in the middle of that race, that horse fell down dead. 0:03:04.400 --> 0:03:06.400 He could not believe it. He rushed over to that priest. 0:03:06.440 --> 0:03:08.840 He said, what in the world happened? The priest said, 0:03:08.880 --> 0:03:11.480 this is the problem with you Protestants. You don't know 0:03:11.520 --> 0:03:16.519 the difference between a blessing and the last rites. All right, 0:03:16.680 --> 0:03:18.880 hold your vivals up, say it like him in it. 0:03:18.919 --> 0:03:22.280 Ready, this is my Bible. I am what it says 0:03:22.320 --> 0:03:25.400 I am. I have what it says I have. I 0:03:25.440 --> 0:03:28.160 can do what it says I can do. Today I 0:03:28.240 --> 0:03:31.560 will be talked the word of God. I boldly confess. 0:03:32.040 --> 0:03:35.800 My mind is alert, my heart is receptive. I will 0:03:35.840 --> 0:03:39.760 never be the same. In Jesus' name, God bless you. 0:03:40.680 --> 0:03:43.680 We've been talking about how God is a god of restoration. 0:03:44.320 --> 0:03:48.080 He wants to restore everything that's been stolen. We all 0:03:48.080 --> 0:03:51.240 go through disappointments. We all have unfair things that happen, 0:03:51.800 --> 0:03:54.480 and too often we just hold on to that hurt 0:03:54.520 --> 0:03:58.080 and pain and we end up going around negative and sour. 0:03:58.720 --> 0:04:01.040 It may be something simple, like you didn't get a 0:04:01.080 --> 0:04:04.760 promotion you were hoping for, or maybe somebody offended you 0:04:04.840 --> 0:04:08.320 at work last week, or your spouse didn't treat you right. 0:04:08.960 --> 0:04:11.840 Sometimes it's our own fault. We lost our. 0:04:11.760 --> 0:04:14.480 Temper and we were short with our children, or we 0:04:14.560 --> 0:04:17.520 didn't exercise enough last week, or we ate too much. 0:04:17.839 --> 0:04:21.880 It's easy to go around feeling bad about ourselves, guilty. 0:04:21.440 --> 0:04:23.720 And condemned, focused on our mistakes. 0:04:24.240 --> 0:04:24.360 Now. 0:04:24.360 --> 0:04:27.680 I know a lot of people that are living in regrets. Well, 0:04:27.720 --> 0:04:30.680 I wish I had finished school, I wish I had 0:04:30.760 --> 0:04:33.560 chosen a different career. I wish I had been a 0:04:33.560 --> 0:04:37.000 better parent. Too often we live life looking in that 0:04:37.080 --> 0:04:40.320 rear view mirror. We have to understand we cannot do 0:04:40.440 --> 0:04:43.880 anything about what's gone, but we can do something about 0:04:43.960 --> 0:04:47.000 right now. Now. I want to challenge you today to 0:04:47.040 --> 0:04:50.880 not let your past poison your future. You may have 0:04:50.960 --> 0:04:54.360 made some poor choices in life, or maybe somebody did 0:04:54.400 --> 0:04:57.359 you wrong and your dreams didn't work out, but you 0:04:57.400 --> 0:05:00.159 need to know God still has a great plan in 0:05:00.200 --> 0:05:02.479 store for your life. And when we get up in 0:05:02.480 --> 0:05:04.920 the morning, one of the first things we should do 0:05:05.520 --> 0:05:10.080 is shake off the disappointments of yesterday. Shake off discouragement. 0:05:10.560 --> 0:05:14.240 Shake off how somebody tweeted you. Shake off guilt, shake 0:05:14.279 --> 0:05:17.400 off self pity. Friends, You gotta shake off the past. 0:05:18.120 --> 0:05:21.600 Our attitude should be this is a new day. I 0:05:21.640 --> 0:05:25.440 may have made mistakes yesterday, my plans may have fallen through, 0:05:25.640 --> 0:05:27.120 people may have disappointed me. 0:05:27.600 --> 0:05:29.400 But you know what what's done is done. 0:05:29.680 --> 0:05:32.400 I'm letting all that go, and I'm gonna start this 0:05:32.520 --> 0:05:36.839 day afresh and anew. See every morning you need to 0:05:36.920 --> 0:05:40.240 just wipe the slate totally clean. You need to say, 0:05:40.400 --> 0:05:43.799 I am forgiving the people that hurt me. I'm forgiving 0:05:43.839 --> 0:05:46.719 my spouse. He was insensitive, but I'm not gonna let 0:05:46.760 --> 0:05:50.000 it ruin this day. I'm forgiving my boss for being 0:05:50.080 --> 0:05:52.839 rude to me last week. I'm forgiving that person for 0:05:52.880 --> 0:05:55.479 cutting me off in traffic. That's over and done. Not 0:05:55.520 --> 0:05:58.880 gonna think about it anymore. And when you make mistakes, 0:05:59.360 --> 0:06:03.359 learn to risk receive God's mercy for yourself. Maybe last 0:06:03.360 --> 0:06:06.200 week you said some things you shouldn't have, maybe you 0:06:06.279 --> 0:06:08.480 spent too much money, maybe you blew your diet. 0:06:08.920 --> 0:06:12.400 Well, don't go around today guilty and condemned. 0:06:12.960 --> 0:06:17.039 The scripture says in lamitations that God's mercies are fresh 0:06:17.240 --> 0:06:20.720 and new every single morning. When you wake up and 0:06:20.760 --> 0:06:23.680 you're tempted to focus on all your faults and mistakes 0:06:23.680 --> 0:06:26.120 of yesterday, or you need to just shake all that off, 0:06:26.720 --> 0:06:29.279 you need to say, Father, I'm sorry for the way 0:06:29.279 --> 0:06:32.640 I acted yesterday, but I receive your mercy today. 0:06:32.800 --> 0:06:34.360 I receive your forgiveness. 0:06:35.040 --> 0:06:38.279 See, don't start the day off guilty and condemned. Started 0:06:38.320 --> 0:06:42.800 off in faith and expectancy. And when you go through disappointments, 0:06:43.200 --> 0:06:45.680 when you suffer some setbacks, don't get up in the 0:06:45.680 --> 0:06:48.760 morning all discouraged. Well, I should have known my plans 0:06:48.800 --> 0:06:51.440 weren't going to work out. Nothing good ever happens to me. 0:06:51.960 --> 0:06:54.159 Now you've got to learn to shake off that self pity. 0:06:54.640 --> 0:06:57.479 And if your plans didn't work out, it's not because 0:06:57.520 --> 0:07:00.000 God doesn't love you. It's not because God's trying to 0:07:00.200 --> 0:07:03.040 punish you. Most of the time, is because God has 0:07:03.080 --> 0:07:06.279 something better in store for you. And the scripture tells 0:07:06.360 --> 0:07:09.480 us that God will take the unfair things, he'll take 0:07:09.520 --> 0:07:12.760 the disappointments, and he'll turn them around and use them 0:07:12.800 --> 0:07:15.800 to our advantage. But if that's gonna happen, you've got 0:07:15.800 --> 0:07:19.120 to do your part and let go of yesterday. That's 0:07:19.160 --> 0:07:22.520 what the apostle Paul is saying here in Philippians three thirteen. 0:07:23.000 --> 0:07:27.680 Forgetting what lies behind, I press forward to the good 0:07:27.720 --> 0:07:31.440 things that are in store. And after all, what's done 0:07:31.640 --> 0:07:35.400 is done. If somebody offended you last week, you cannot 0:07:35.520 --> 0:07:38.360 undo that. You can either get angry and bitter and 0:07:38.360 --> 0:07:41.440 try to pay him back, or you can just forgive 0:07:41.480 --> 0:07:44.200 them and move on with your life. Or maybe you 0:07:44.240 --> 0:07:46.960 didn't qualify for that new home that you really wanted. 0:07:47.360 --> 0:07:48.520 Well, don't get discouraged. 0:07:48.880 --> 0:07:51.600 Know that God has promised that all things are going 0:07:51.680 --> 0:07:54.760 to work together for your good friends. What I'm saying 0:07:54.800 --> 0:07:56.960 today is you don't have to be a prisoner of 0:07:57.000 --> 0:08:00.760 your past, whether it happened twenty years ago or twenty 0:08:00.800 --> 0:08:03.760 minutes ago. Why don't you make a decision that you're 0:08:03.800 --> 0:08:06.320 going to let it go and move on. Your past 0:08:06.400 --> 0:08:09.200 does not have to poison your future. And I'm asking 0:08:09.240 --> 0:08:14.160 you not to waste another minute being depressed, defeated, angry, bitter, 0:08:14.360 --> 0:08:15.200 in sel pity. 0:08:15.760 --> 0:08:16.760 Don't let all that go. 0:08:17.440 --> 0:08:20.560 Our time here on this earth is so very short. 0:08:20.800 --> 0:08:22.640 Before you know it, we're all going to be gone. 0:08:23.120 --> 0:08:25.800 And what a shame to allow something that's happened in 0:08:25.840 --> 0:08:29.360 the past to destroy this day, to destroy our future. 0:08:30.000 --> 0:08:32.679 And that's exactly what we do. Sometimes something can happen 0:08:32.679 --> 0:08:34.200 early in the morning and we let. 0:08:34.120 --> 0:08:35.080 It ruin our whole day. 0:08:35.559 --> 0:08:38.439 You get caught in traffic, you get delayed, you can't find. 0:08:38.160 --> 0:08:40.320 Your car keys. Well, you can either. 0:08:40.240 --> 0:08:43.120 Let that frustrate you and sour the rest of your day, 0:08:43.679 --> 0:08:44.200 or you can. 0:08:44.040 --> 0:08:46.040 Do what the scripture says and let the past be 0:08:46.120 --> 0:08:46.560 the past. 0:08:46.960 --> 0:08:49.280 Just let it go and move on and enjoy that 0:08:49.400 --> 0:08:54.120 day anyway. For instance, maybe somebody offends you at ten 0:08:54.120 --> 0:08:57.240 o'clock in the morning, and now it's ten thirty, Well, 0:08:57.280 --> 0:09:00.360 our attitude should be I'm moving on whole on to 0:09:00.440 --> 0:09:00.920 that offense. 0:09:00.920 --> 0:09:02.000 That's over and gone. 0:09:02.480 --> 0:09:04.800 Maybe at noon you found out you didn't get that 0:09:04.840 --> 0:09:08.000 big account you've been working on. Now it's two o'clock, 0:09:08.400 --> 0:09:11.200 your attitude should be no big deal. I'm not gonna 0:09:11.280 --> 0:09:14.160 let that ruin the rest of my week. Yes, I'm disappointed, 0:09:14.240 --> 0:09:16.120 Yes I would have loved to have it, but I'm 0:09:16.120 --> 0:09:18.400 gonna hold my head up high knowing that God is 0:09:18.440 --> 0:09:20.960 still in control and He's got good things in store 0:09:21.000 --> 0:09:23.480 for me. See, you got to learn to shake off 0:09:23.520 --> 0:09:28.319 those disappointments, shake off that discouragement, shake off your mistakes 0:09:28.320 --> 0:09:32.240 and failures. Don't live your life guilty and condemned. I 0:09:32.280 --> 0:09:34.760 can tell you this, the enemy will do his very 0:09:34.800 --> 0:09:37.600 best to try to get your days started off all 0:09:37.679 --> 0:09:40.840 negative and sour. He will remind you of every mistake 0:09:40.920 --> 0:09:44.280 you made last week. He'll give you a complete inventory 0:09:44.480 --> 0:09:47.280 of every time you had a bad attitude, every time 0:09:47.320 --> 0:09:51.000 you were undisciplined. Every time you blew it. His whole 0:09:51.040 --> 0:09:53.160 gold is to get us to go through the day 0:09:53.360 --> 0:09:57.240 with a heaviness, feeling bad carrying around all this baggage. 0:09:57.520 --> 0:09:58.120 Well, man, I. 0:09:58.040 --> 0:10:01.079 Should have read my Bible more yesterday, or I wanted 0:10:01.080 --> 0:10:02.760 to clean the house, but I was lazy and I 0:10:02.800 --> 0:10:04.760 just watched TV all day. I don't know what's wrong 0:10:04.800 --> 0:10:08.000 with me? Why am I so undisciplined? No, don't you 0:10:08.080 --> 0:10:10.240 dare start your day off like that. You get up 0:10:10.240 --> 0:10:12.199 in the morning and say, Father, I thank you that 0:10:12.280 --> 0:10:14.199 this is going to be a great day and I'm 0:10:14.200 --> 0:10:15.160 gonna do what I. 0:10:15.160 --> 0:10:19.280 Need to do. You just declare it. Father, I thank 0:10:19.320 --> 0:10:20.040 you that I have. 0:10:20.160 --> 0:10:24.040 Discipline, I have self control, that I am focused and God, 0:10:24.080 --> 0:10:26.079 I may not have done what I should have yesterday, 0:10:26.240 --> 0:10:28.040 but I'm letting go of that and I'm gonna do 0:10:28.080 --> 0:10:31.559 better today. See, don't live your life guilty and condemned. 0:10:31.920 --> 0:10:34.760 Yesterday you may have blown your diet, but let it go. 0:10:34.920 --> 0:10:37.959 That day's over, Get up and do better today. If 0:10:38.000 --> 0:10:41.440 you go through this day guilty and you start making excuses, 0:10:41.840 --> 0:10:43.240 you know as well as I do, you'll go out 0:10:43.240 --> 0:10:45.120 and eat fourteen gallons of ice cream today. 0:10:46.160 --> 0:10:47.439 Let it go. 0:10:47.880 --> 0:10:49.760 Last week you may have been short with some of 0:10:49.800 --> 0:10:53.080 your employees. Let it go and do better this week. 0:10:53.640 --> 0:10:55.880 Last month, you may have spent too much money. You 0:10:55.920 --> 0:10:58.840 weren't very wise and your finances will Let that go 0:10:58.920 --> 0:11:02.000 and do better this month. The scripture tells us in 0:11:02.000 --> 0:11:06.560 Ephesians four twenty three that every day, not every month, 0:11:06.720 --> 0:11:09.720 not once a week, no, every day, we need to 0:11:09.720 --> 0:11:14.160 put on a fresh new attitude, being constantly renewed in 0:11:14.200 --> 0:11:15.120 the spirit. 0:11:14.800 --> 0:11:15.560 Of our minds. 0:11:16.000 --> 0:11:18.959 That means every morning we need to forgive the people 0:11:18.960 --> 0:11:19.680 that have hurt us. 0:11:20.120 --> 0:11:22.439 Every morning we need to receive. 0:11:22.200 --> 0:11:25.560 God's mercy for our own mistakes. And every morning we 0:11:25.600 --> 0:11:29.240 need to let go of the disappointments of yesterday. And 0:11:29.320 --> 0:11:30.880 I know some of you have had a lot of 0:11:30.920 --> 0:11:33.960 negative things happen in your life, and it's very easy 0:11:34.200 --> 0:11:36.840 to stay focused on the pains of the past and 0:11:36.920 --> 0:11:39.240 all the people that hurt you and all the times 0:11:39.280 --> 0:11:42.840 things didn't work out. But please don't fall into that trap. 0:11:43.440 --> 0:11:45.520 One of the main ways we let go of the 0:11:45.559 --> 0:11:47.640 past is simply don't think. 0:11:47.480 --> 0:11:49.360 About it and don't talk about it. 0:11:49.960 --> 0:11:52.760 When those negative memories come up in your mind, do 0:11:52.880 --> 0:11:55.960 not relive them. One of The best things you can 0:11:56.000 --> 0:11:59.160 do is learn to change the channel. Just like you 0:11:59.200 --> 0:12:01.400 do with that television in remote control. You see something 0:12:01.440 --> 0:12:04.040 you don't want to watch, you flip on by. Well, 0:12:04.080 --> 0:12:06.480 you can do the same thing in your mind. You 0:12:06.520 --> 0:12:09.800 can mentally change the channel, and when those painful memories 0:12:09.840 --> 0:12:11.920 come up, don't stop there, flip on by. 0:12:12.280 --> 0:12:15.200 That's over and done. This is a new day. 0:12:15.840 --> 0:12:18.280 You've got to keep your mind going in the right direction, 0:12:18.800 --> 0:12:21.320 keep your mind focused on good things in an attitude 0:12:21.360 --> 0:12:25.199 of faith. I know sometimes when I'm watching TV at home, 0:12:25.360 --> 0:12:28.280 I'll come across a medical program where they're doing some 0:12:28.360 --> 0:12:31.160 kind of operation and they've got the person all opened up. 0:12:31.559 --> 0:12:33.680 You can see the skin pull back and the blood 0:12:33.720 --> 0:12:36.080 and the organs. Well, do you know it doesn't take 0:12:36.080 --> 0:12:40.120 me more than a half a second to flip on by. 0:12:40.200 --> 0:12:42.320 That stuff is not for me. I don't even have 0:12:42.360 --> 0:12:43.080 to think twice. 0:12:43.640 --> 0:12:46.520 And really that's the same way it should be when 0:12:46.559 --> 0:12:49.640 it comes to the negative things of our past. The 0:12:49.800 --> 0:12:53.760 enemy would love for you to continually relive every disappointment 0:12:54.160 --> 0:12:56.240 and every painful thing that's happened to you. 0:12:56.520 --> 0:12:57.720 But don't make that mistake. 0:12:58.559 --> 0:13:00.800 Some people, when all that jump comes up on the 0:13:00.800 --> 0:13:03.760 picture screen of their mind. Instead of flipping by it 0:13:03.840 --> 0:13:06.800 quickly like they should, they pull up a chair and 0:13:06.920 --> 0:13:08.880 get a bag of popcorn, like they're gonna watch a 0:13:08.880 --> 0:13:12.040 good movie, and for half an hour they'll just replay 0:13:12.040 --> 0:13:14.079 it and relive it over and over again. 0:13:14.320 --> 0:13:16.000 You know as well as I do. All that does. 0:13:16.040 --> 0:13:19.000 It gets you more upset, more depressed, more full of 0:13:19.040 --> 0:13:19.559 self pity. 0:13:19.760 --> 0:13:22.520 Don't go there. Learn to change the channel. If you 0:13:22.600 --> 0:13:23.520 make the mistake of. 0:13:23.480 --> 0:13:26.480 Dwelling on that junk I found, before long you'll be 0:13:26.559 --> 0:13:29.000 talking about it. You'll be telling your friends, can you 0:13:29.040 --> 0:13:30.080 believe what happened to me? 0:13:30.160 --> 0:13:33.080 Life is so unfair. The more you talk about it, 0:13:33.120 --> 0:13:34.240 the more you think about. 0:13:34.000 --> 0:13:36.720 It, the more stirred up it's gonna stay. It's just 0:13:36.800 --> 0:13:39.640 like a wound that's trying to heal, like a scab. 0:13:39.880 --> 0:13:42.280 Every time you talk about it, you're picking that wound. 0:13:42.559 --> 0:13:46.360 It's never gonna get better. Quit rehearsing it, Quit reliving it. 0:13:46.480 --> 0:13:49.199 Learn to change the channel. If you're gonna go forward, 0:13:49.200 --> 0:13:51.679 you got to quit looking backwards. I know, a couple 0:13:51.679 --> 0:13:54.240 of years after my father died, I was over at 0:13:54.240 --> 0:13:57.040 my parents' house one night, all alone, and I hadn't 0:13:57.080 --> 0:14:00.199 been there by myself in quite some time. As I 0:14:00.280 --> 0:14:03.599 was walking through the family room, I immediately began to 0:14:03.640 --> 0:14:06.520 think about the night that my father died. I don't 0:14:06.559 --> 0:14:08.800 know why. It just came up in my thinking. And 0:14:08.880 --> 0:14:11.240 I could see my father lying there on the floor. 0:14:11.559 --> 0:14:13.480 Daddy had a heart attack and died right there in 0:14:13.520 --> 0:14:16.120 the family room. I could see the paramedics working on 0:14:16.200 --> 0:14:19.320 him frantically. I could see his face, and I begin 0:14:19.400 --> 0:14:23.760 to feel those same emotions sorrow, sadness, despair. This went 0:14:23.800 --> 0:14:26.720 on for maybe fifteen to twenty thirty seconds, and I 0:14:26.720 --> 0:14:27.840 finally caught myself. 0:14:28.160 --> 0:14:30.240 I thought, what am I doing? Where is my mind 0:14:30.400 --> 0:14:31.440 going now? 0:14:31.440 --> 0:14:33.720 I had to make a decision that I was not 0:14:33.800 --> 0:14:36.320 going to relive that night. I knew it was not 0:14:36.400 --> 0:14:39.480 going to do me any good, and so instead I 0:14:39.520 --> 0:14:42.760 started on purpose thinking about all the good. 0:14:42.600 --> 0:14:44.200 Memories I had in that room. 0:14:44.680 --> 0:14:46.800 I mean, that's where my father and I used to 0:14:46.840 --> 0:14:50.120 watch Wheel of Fortune together. He used to think he 0:14:50.160 --> 0:14:53.400 could beat me, but he never could. That's where Daddy 0:14:53.480 --> 0:14:56.320 used to play with my children. Sometimes I'd come over 0:14:56.360 --> 0:14:57.960 to see my father and he'd be sitting there in 0:14:57.960 --> 0:15:01.200 his favorite chair. He's smiling, I say, Joe, tell me all, 0:15:01.240 --> 0:15:03.000 you know, it'll just take a second. 0:15:04.720 --> 0:15:06.520 He thought. He was real funny. 0:15:07.080 --> 0:15:08.600 I thought if he could only see me now, it'd 0:15:08.600 --> 0:15:11.720 take me more than a second. But I had to 0:15:12.240 --> 0:15:15.400 on purpose not allow my mind to go back to 0:15:15.440 --> 0:15:18.400 those painful memories. It was a decision I had to make. 0:15:18.560 --> 0:15:21.040 You've got to do the same thing. Quit reliving all 0:15:21.040 --> 0:15:22.080 the negative things that have. 0:15:22.000 --> 0:15:22.600 Happened to you. 0:15:23.080 --> 0:15:25.760 I heard somebody say, we have two main files in 0:15:25.800 --> 0:15:28.920 our memory system. One is a file of all the 0:15:28.960 --> 0:15:31.840 good things that have happened to us, all of our victories, 0:15:31.880 --> 0:15:34.440 all of our accomplishments, all of the things that have 0:15:34.440 --> 0:15:37.960 brought us joy and happiness. That's file number one. The 0:15:38.080 --> 0:15:41.480 second file is filled with all of the negative things 0:15:41.480 --> 0:15:44.840 of our past, all of our hurts and pains, all 0:15:44.880 --> 0:15:48.720 of our failures and disappointments, anything that's caused us sorrow 0:15:48.840 --> 0:15:52.720 and sadness and throughout life. We can choose which file 0:15:52.800 --> 0:15:56.000 we're going to go back to. And some people, unfortunately, 0:15:56.160 --> 0:15:59.680 they're constantly going back to file number two, thinking about 0:15:59.720 --> 0:16:02.480 all all the times they were hurt, all the times 0:16:02.520 --> 0:16:05.720 they were mistreated, all the times their plans didn't work out. 0:16:05.880 --> 0:16:08.680 I mean, they just wear out foul number two. They 0:16:08.720 --> 0:16:12.400 are so preoccupied with the pains of the past they 0:16:12.440 --> 0:16:14.480 never get around to look at in foule number one. 0:16:14.880 --> 0:16:17.000 They never even think about the good things God has 0:16:17.000 --> 0:16:20.440 done in their life. Friends, I'm challenging you today, if 0:16:20.480 --> 0:16:22.400 you're going to live in victory, you got to throw 0:16:22.400 --> 0:16:24.280 away the key to pound number two. 0:16:24.680 --> 0:16:26.040 Don't go back there anymore. 0:16:26.240 --> 0:16:28.600 If you go back for anything, go back to phule 0:16:28.720 --> 0:16:31.600 number one and remember the great things God has done 0:16:31.640 --> 0:16:34.120 in your life. The scripture tells us we got to 0:16:34.120 --> 0:16:36.760 think on things that are of a good report, things 0:16:36.760 --> 0:16:39.960 that build us up and not tear us down. And 0:16:40.000 --> 0:16:42.520 this is where so many people are missing it today. 0:16:42.880 --> 0:16:45.440 This is why so many people are not happy. It's 0:16:45.520 --> 0:16:49.000 just like they're constantly dragging around all this baggage from 0:16:49.000 --> 0:16:52.320 the past. They got this big old suitcase out. Somebody 0:16:52.360 --> 0:16:55.640 offended them. They put that bitterness and resentment in there. 0:16:55.680 --> 0:16:58.440 They pack it away. They didn't get that promotion we 0:16:58.520 --> 0:17:00.600 talked about, so they got that self pity. 0:17:00.360 --> 0:17:00.960 Packed in there. 0:17:01.480 --> 0:17:05.040 Growing up, they were mistreated, they had some unfair things happen. Man, 0:17:05.040 --> 0:17:07.280 they got a whole suitcase for all that jump lugging 0:17:07.320 --> 0:17:10.359 it around with them. Ten years ago, a loved one died. 0:17:10.440 --> 0:17:12.720 They sure don't understand that they got that packed away, 0:17:13.240 --> 0:17:17.240 And everywhere they go they are so weighted down, carrying 0:17:17.280 --> 0:17:22.400 all this baggage self pity, bitterness, resentment, And if that's 0:17:22.440 --> 0:17:24.280 not bad enough, every once in a while they'll stop 0:17:24.320 --> 0:17:26.679 and open up a bag, take something out and. 0:17:26.680 --> 0:17:27.119 Look at it. 0:17:27.160 --> 0:17:27.560 Real good. 0:17:27.720 --> 0:17:30.879 We live all the negative some of you even today, 0:17:31.080 --> 0:17:34.160 you do not realize how weighted down you are. You've 0:17:34.200 --> 0:17:37.440 been carrying around junk year after year after year. Somebody 0:17:37.560 --> 0:17:41.680 hurts you, somebody disappointed you. Your plans didn't work out, thisten. 0:17:41.720 --> 0:17:42.960 God wants you to be free. 0:17:43.040 --> 0:17:45.720 You gotta let go of that jump. Well, you said, Joe, 0:17:45.760 --> 0:17:49.000 you don't understand what I've been through. It was so unfair. 0:17:49.040 --> 0:17:51.880 They hurt me so badly. Now I don't doubt any 0:17:51.880 --> 0:17:55.320 of that. I realize life is not always fair, But 0:17:55.440 --> 0:17:58.280 don't let that continue to poison you by holding on 0:17:58.320 --> 0:18:00.639 to it. If you will give it to God and 0:18:00.720 --> 0:18:03.520 quit thinking about it and quit reliving it, God will 0:18:03.560 --> 0:18:06.240 make your wrongs right. God is a god of justice. 0:18:06.280 --> 0:18:08.720 He'll pay you back. But as long as you're. 0:18:08.600 --> 0:18:10.359 Holding on to it, it's just gonna make. 0:18:10.320 --> 0:18:13.520 Matters worse it's gonna keep you bitter and negative when 0:18:13.520 --> 0:18:15.800 you give it to God, though he'll make sure that 0:18:15.840 --> 0:18:17.919 you not only get what you deserve, he'll pay you 0:18:18.000 --> 0:18:20.639 back with much much more. I know a couple of 0:18:20.720 --> 0:18:23.680 years ago, we were trying to buy some property to 0:18:23.720 --> 0:18:26.560 build a new church sanctuary on it. And we searched 0:18:26.600 --> 0:18:29.800 and searched for probably six months time, and we finally 0:18:29.840 --> 0:18:31.960 found this one hundred acre tract. 0:18:31.800 --> 0:18:34.520 Of land and we loved it. We thought it was perfect. 0:18:34.640 --> 0:18:36.679 It was over by the other location and not too 0:18:36.760 --> 0:18:39.760 far off the freeway, and so we signed a non 0:18:39.960 --> 0:18:43.560 binding letter of intent to buy that property. And for 0:18:43.600 --> 0:18:47.000 the next several months, we did all kinds of studies. 0:18:46.520 --> 0:18:48.000 And we did the soil samples. 0:18:48.400 --> 0:18:50.760 We had our architects lay out where the buildings would 0:18:50.800 --> 0:18:53.320 go and how the parking lots would flow, and we 0:18:53.359 --> 0:18:56.520 spent thousands and thousands of dollars zoon all this research 0:18:56.760 --> 0:18:59.080 to really make sure the property would work for us. 0:18:59.400 --> 0:19:02.440 We find came down to closing, and I'll never forget. 0:19:02.560 --> 0:19:05.160 It was early on a Thursday morning, and we showed 0:19:05.240 --> 0:19:08.560 up about fifteen minutes before our appointment, and this secretary 0:19:08.600 --> 0:19:10.880 walked out and she said, I hate to tell you 0:19:10.880 --> 0:19:14.240 guys this, but we sold that property last night to 0:19:14.320 --> 0:19:17.760 another buyer man. We could not believe it here, We'd 0:19:17.760 --> 0:19:20.760 spent all this time and effort and energy. We were 0:19:20.800 --> 0:19:23.520 so disappointed. I was tempted to go home and have 0:19:23.560 --> 0:19:25.919 a pity party. I was tempted to say, God, that 0:19:26.200 --> 0:19:28.680 is not fair, God, why didn't you do something? 0:19:28.760 --> 0:19:30.520 How come you didn't stop from God, your God? 0:19:31.160 --> 0:19:33.119 But no, I had to do just when I'm telling 0:19:33.119 --> 0:19:35.800 you today, I just said, God, it is not fair 0:19:35.840 --> 0:19:37.760 and I don't understand it, but I'm not gonna hold 0:19:37.760 --> 0:19:39.600 on to it. I'm just gonna give it to you, 0:19:40.040 --> 0:19:41.639 and I'm gonna trust it You're gonna make it up 0:19:41.640 --> 0:19:44.439 to us. And for the next several weeks, when I 0:19:44.480 --> 0:19:46.719 got up in the morning, I had to change the channel. 0:19:47.080 --> 0:19:49.320 Those negative, discouraging. 0:19:48.720 --> 0:19:51.359 Thoughts kept coming to my mind, and I'd have to say, no, 0:19:51.560 --> 0:19:53.560 I'm not gonna go there. I'm not gonna dwell on that, 0:19:53.880 --> 0:19:56.399 and I'm not gonna go around telling everybody what happened. 0:19:56.840 --> 0:19:59.640 I just stayed in an attitude of faith. Month after 0:19:59.720 --> 0:20:02.280 month went by. We didn't see any new doors open up. 0:20:02.800 --> 0:20:05.800 But see, that was a time of testing. When you 0:20:05.880 --> 0:20:09.320 don't get your way, you're being mistreated, or somebody did 0:20:09.359 --> 0:20:13.199 something unfair to you. God is closely watching you to 0:20:13.240 --> 0:20:15.760 see how you're going to respond. Are you going to 0:20:15.840 --> 0:20:18.359 hold on to it and get negative and better and 0:20:18.400 --> 0:20:21.119 go around complaining all the time, or are you just 0:20:21.119 --> 0:20:23.359 going to let it go and keep a smile on 0:20:23.400 --> 0:20:27.200 your face anyway and stay in that attitude of faith, trusting. 0:20:26.800 --> 0:20:29.040 God to make it up to you. We just turned 0:20:29.080 --> 0:20:30.560 it over to God, and it was. 0:20:30.560 --> 0:20:33.399 About six months after that that we got a call 0:20:33.640 --> 0:20:37.000 that this place was becoming available, and we knew right 0:20:37.040 --> 0:20:40.760 then and there that God had supernaturally closed those doors 0:20:41.040 --> 0:20:43.760 so he could do something even far greater than we 0:20:43.800 --> 0:20:50.159 had even imagined it. And sometimes what may look like 0:20:50.320 --> 0:20:53.639 a great disappointment in your own life is really only 0:20:53.680 --> 0:20:56.520 God keeping you from making a mistake. You got to 0:20:56.600 --> 0:21:00.159 learn to trust him. God always has your best interest 0:21:00.040 --> 0:21:02.560 at heart. And when your plans don't work out and 0:21:02.600 --> 0:21:05.840 you don't get your way, don't sit around all depressed 0:21:05.840 --> 0:21:08.320 and sour. You've got to learn to shake off that 0:21:08.400 --> 0:21:09.960 discouragement and keep. 0:21:09.720 --> 0:21:11.040 Moving forward with your life. 0:21:11.680 --> 0:21:13.679 Too many people today they will not let go of 0:21:13.720 --> 0:21:16.560 the baggage. I know this lady that went through a 0:21:16.600 --> 0:21:19.720 felled marriage. She was married to a very well to 0:21:19.760 --> 0:21:21.840 do man, and for some reason he left her and 0:21:21.880 --> 0:21:25.240 married somebody else, and she could just not seem. 0:21:25.000 --> 0:21:25.800 To get over this. 0:21:26.000 --> 0:21:28.719 She was so bitter about it, and I told her 0:21:28.760 --> 0:21:30.840 what I'm telling you today, that you've got to let 0:21:30.880 --> 0:21:33.760 that go, keep a good attitude, and trust God to 0:21:33.800 --> 0:21:36.840 make it up to you. Year after year, we prayed 0:21:36.840 --> 0:21:39.440 time and time again at the old Sanctuary that God 0:21:39.480 --> 0:21:40.880 would bring somebody. 0:21:40.520 --> 0:21:41.560 New into her life. 0:21:41.840 --> 0:21:45.000 And sure enough, one day that door opened up and 0:21:45.040 --> 0:21:47.800 she met this man, a fine man, a godly man, 0:21:48.040 --> 0:21:51.240 very successful as well. But do you know she made 0:21:51.240 --> 0:21:54.439 the mistake of carrying all that old baggage into this 0:21:54.520 --> 0:21:58.639 new relationship. She was constantly talking about how badly she 0:21:58.680 --> 0:22:00.840 had been hurt and all she had gone through, and 0:22:01.040 --> 0:22:03.280 how just totally dreamed it she was. 0:22:03.960 --> 0:22:05.960 And this man told me privately. 0:22:05.560 --> 0:22:08.479 Later that she was so focused on her past and 0:22:08.520 --> 0:22:10.680 so caught up in what she had been through, he 0:22:10.720 --> 0:22:11.840 couldn't handle it anymore. 0:22:11.880 --> 0:22:14.720 He just moved on. And that's exactly what happens. 0:22:15.040 --> 0:22:17.399 When we hold on to the hurts and pains of 0:22:17.440 --> 0:22:20.840 the past, it's gonna poison us wherever we go. And 0:22:20.880 --> 0:22:22.800 you may think other people are the problem and that's 0:22:22.800 --> 0:22:24.760 why you can't have healthy relationships. 0:22:25.280 --> 0:22:26.440 But I would encourage you. 0:22:26.560 --> 0:22:29.400 To examine your own heart and make sure that you're 0:22:29.400 --> 0:22:33.880 not the problem. We cannot expect to have good relationships 0:22:33.960 --> 0:22:35.240 if we're dragging all. 0:22:35.080 --> 0:22:36.760 This baggage around with us. 0:22:37.400 --> 0:22:39.160 Some of you today you need to draw that line 0:22:39.200 --> 0:22:40.840 into sand and say, you know what, I've had enough. 0:22:40.840 --> 0:22:43.160 I'm gonna get rid of all my baggage, and I'm gonna. 0:22:42.960 --> 0:22:45.919 Stop focusing on my disappointments and on who hurt me 0:22:46.000 --> 0:22:49.000 and what didn't work out, and I'm gonna start dwelling 0:22:49.119 --> 0:22:51.159 on the bright future God has in store for me. 0:22:51.200 --> 0:22:53.960 I'm gonna start moving forward with my life. And when 0:22:54.000 --> 0:22:56.240 you do that, God can give you a new beginning. 0:22:56.600 --> 0:22:59.960 That's when things can begin to change. And I understand 0:23:00.119 --> 0:23:03.560 that when we go through disappointments and unfair things happen, 0:23:03.800 --> 0:23:05.320 it's normal to feel. 0:23:05.080 --> 0:23:06.640 A little down and discouraged. 0:23:07.080 --> 0:23:09.639 Of course, if you lose a loved one, it's natural 0:23:09.840 --> 0:23:13.280 to grieve and mourn over that. But I would encourage 0:23:13.280 --> 0:23:17.160 you today to not let a season of mourning turn 0:23:17.200 --> 0:23:21.200 into a lifetime of mourning. It's interesting in the Old Testament, 0:23:21.359 --> 0:23:24.440 when somebody died, they had a certain amount of time 0:23:24.480 --> 0:23:26.600 they could mourn. A lot of times it was thirty days, 0:23:26.880 --> 0:23:28.399 and after that they didn't have a choice. 0:23:28.480 --> 0:23:29.960 They had to get up and get going. 0:23:30.760 --> 0:23:32.639 And I'm not saying today that we should have no 0:23:32.800 --> 0:23:35.359 feelings toward the past and we just need to be 0:23:35.440 --> 0:23:37.720 made out of steal and let everything bounce off of us. 0:23:38.320 --> 0:23:41.720 That I am saying. We cannot while around in self pity. 0:23:42.359 --> 0:23:44.919 And if something is over and done in your life, 0:23:45.280 --> 0:23:47.439 you've got to be big enough to just accept it 0:23:47.680 --> 0:23:50.520 and move on. If you have a loved one that 0:23:50.640 --> 0:23:52.760 was sick and you prayed and prayed, but they didn't 0:23:52.760 --> 0:23:55.760 get healed, they didn't get well, they died anyway, well. 0:23:55.800 --> 0:23:57.040 God is still in control. 0:23:57.119 --> 0:23:59.800 Don't get bitter, Be grateful for the time that you 0:23:59.840 --> 0:24:02.440 have here with that person, like I did with my dad. 0:24:02.880 --> 0:24:05.760 Focus on your good memories, and then keep moving forward 0:24:05.760 --> 0:24:08.280 with your life. And I don't know if there's any 0:24:08.320 --> 0:24:11.600 certain amount of time set today, but if you're one 0:24:11.680 --> 0:24:14.679 year past a disappointment or a year past a setback 0:24:15.160 --> 0:24:17.359 and you're still talking about it and thinking about it 0:24:17.400 --> 0:24:20.040 and grieving over it, friends, that's way too long. 0:24:20.280 --> 0:24:21.800 You got to get up and get going. 0:24:22.359 --> 0:24:25.480 Quit mourning over something that you cannot change. Quit carrying 0:24:25.480 --> 0:24:28.080 around all that baggage. God wants to give you a 0:24:28.119 --> 0:24:31.119 new beginning. Well, you say, Joe, here's my problem. I 0:24:31.240 --> 0:24:34.359 just don't understand why this has happened to me. But 0:24:34.359 --> 0:24:36.440 here's one of the best phrases you could ever hear. 0:24:36.840 --> 0:24:39.800 Don't ever put a question mark where God has put 0:24:39.800 --> 0:24:42.359 a period. There are a lot of things in our 0:24:42.400 --> 0:24:44.320 lives that we're never gonna understand. 0:24:46.960 --> 0:24:48.640 We deal with people that have. 0:24:48.680 --> 0:24:52.280 Lost loved ones in an accident so unfair, people that 0:24:52.359 --> 0:24:55.040 have been laid off of a job after twenty years, 0:24:55.160 --> 0:24:57.879 people that have been raised in such a pitiful environment. 0:24:58.080 --> 0:25:01.040 We're never gonna understand all that. But what I'm saying 0:25:01.080 --> 0:25:04.719 today is what's done is done. We cannot do anything 0:25:04.760 --> 0:25:07.800 about the past, but we can do something about right now. 0:25:08.440 --> 0:25:10.520 You need to dig your heels in and make the 0:25:10.560 --> 0:25:13.520 most of this moment. You may have lost a lot, 0:25:13.600 --> 0:25:15.640 but you've got to make the most with what you've 0:25:15.680 --> 0:25:16.440 got left over. 0:25:16.760 --> 0:25:18.760 Don't let the pass poison your future. 0:25:19.640 --> 0:25:21.720 You may remember the story in the news a couple 0:25:21.760 --> 0:25:24.879 of years ago about a young mountain climber. He was 0:25:24.920 --> 0:25:28.199 in a remote section of Utah, all by himself, and 0:25:28.200 --> 0:25:30.800 as he was hiking through the canyon, all of a sudden, 0:25:31.080 --> 0:25:35.080 this eight hundred pound boulder shifted in his arm became trapped, 0:25:35.520 --> 0:25:38.680 and he tried for five days everything he possibly could 0:25:38.680 --> 0:25:42.000 to free himself. Had a little pocket knife an hour 0:25:42.080 --> 0:25:44.520 after hour, he chipped away and chipped away, but to 0:25:44.600 --> 0:25:47.359 no avail. When that didn't work, he tried to use 0:25:47.400 --> 0:25:50.480 his climbing gear to somehow shift the rock, but again 0:25:50.640 --> 0:25:51.560 he could not budget. 0:25:52.119 --> 0:25:54.200 After three days, his food. 0:25:53.920 --> 0:25:57.320 And water supply ran out, and by this time his 0:25:57.560 --> 0:26:01.080 arm was already dead. It had had no blood flowing 0:26:01.119 --> 0:26:03.399 through it, and he told how it was hard and 0:26:03.480 --> 0:26:06.359 cold and stiff. He had no feeling in it, and 0:26:06.400 --> 0:26:08.520 it looked like he was going to die with that 0:26:08.600 --> 0:26:09.080 dead arm. 0:26:09.200 --> 0:26:10.800 Didn't look like there was any way out. 0:26:11.480 --> 0:26:14.560 But on the fifth day he made a decision to 0:26:14.640 --> 0:26:17.840 do the unthinkable. He knew that if he was going 0:26:17.880 --> 0:26:20.080 to survive, he was going to have to cut that 0:26:20.280 --> 0:26:21.080 arm off. 0:26:21.200 --> 0:26:23.639 So he could go and find help and get rescued. 0:26:24.080 --> 0:26:25.840 And believe it or not, he put a tourniquet on 0:26:25.960 --> 0:26:29.520 up here and somehow, some way he amputated his own arm. 0:26:29.960 --> 0:26:32.879 He then walked two miles before somebody saw him and 0:26:32.960 --> 0:26:36.760 rescued him. Miraculously, he was saved. And in a sense, 0:26:37.040 --> 0:26:40.480 we all come to places like that in life, not physically, 0:26:40.520 --> 0:26:43.480 of course, but where something is over and done. 0:26:43.600 --> 0:26:45.239 There's nothing that we can do about it. 0:26:45.600 --> 0:26:48.160 We may not understand it, it may not have been fair, 0:26:48.480 --> 0:26:50.439 but that does not change the fact that it is 0:26:50.520 --> 0:26:53.800 no longer alive. And we can either hold on to 0:26:53.960 --> 0:26:56.679 it and allow it to drag us down and defeat 0:26:56.800 --> 0:27:00.879 us with it, or like that young man, as difficult 0:27:00.960 --> 0:27:03.639 as it may seem, we can choose to break away 0:27:03.640 --> 0:27:06.480 from it and move forward with our life, so we 0:27:06.560 --> 0:27:09.439 too can receive our new beginning. And I would challenge 0:27:09.480 --> 0:27:12.720 you today, if something is dead in your life, don't 0:27:12.760 --> 0:27:15.800 die with it. If something is over and done, don't 0:27:15.880 --> 0:27:18.840 hold on to it, let it go, give it to God. 0:27:19.520 --> 0:27:22.399 Just say God, these people hurt me. It wasn't fair. 0:27:22.840 --> 0:27:25.679 But I'm not going to go around reliving it, thinking 0:27:25.680 --> 0:27:26.800 about it, talking about it. 0:27:26.840 --> 0:27:28.280 I'm gonna cut it off and move on. 0:27:29.359 --> 0:27:32.760 Or maybe a dream has died, your plans didn't work out, 0:27:33.200 --> 0:27:34.320 but don't die with it. 0:27:34.760 --> 0:27:37.760 If you'll keep moving forward. God will give you another dream. 0:27:38.560 --> 0:27:42.040 Friends, your future starts today, and no matter what you've 0:27:42.080 --> 0:27:45.600 been through, no matter how unfair it was, God has 0:27:45.720 --> 0:27:48.800 great things in store for you. And my prayer is 0:27:48.840 --> 0:27:50.879 that you'll go out of here free from the past, 0:27:51.280 --> 0:27:54.800 free from guilt, free from bitterness, free from self pity. 0:27:55.440 --> 0:27:58.240 Why don't you get rid of all that baggage, as 0:27:58.280 --> 0:28:01.040 I said, whether it happened to ten years ago or 0:28:01.040 --> 0:28:03.719 ten minutes ago, make a decision that you're gonna let 0:28:03.720 --> 0:28:06.400 it go and move on with your life, and get 0:28:06.440 --> 0:28:09.360 in a habit of doing this on a daily basis. 0:28:09.560 --> 0:28:13.240 Every morning, forgive the people that have hurt you, Every morning, 0:28:13.320 --> 0:28:17.560 receive God's mercy for your mistakes, and every morning let 0:28:17.640 --> 0:28:21.440 go of the disappointments of yesterday. If you will do that, 0:28:21.920 --> 0:28:24.119 I can promise you this, God will give you a 0:28:24.280 --> 0:28:28.280 daily new beginning and you'll live your life refreshed and restored, 0:28:28.320 --> 0:28:31.159 and you'll experience the good things that God has in 0:28:31.200 --> 0:28:34.280 store for you. Heymen, how many of you receive it today? 0:28:35.800 --> 0:28:38.600 We never like to close our broadcast without giving you 0:28:38.640 --> 0:28:41.480 an opportunity to make Jesus the lord of your life. 0:28:41.720 --> 0:28:45.440 Would you pray with me? Just say Lord Jesus, I 0:28:45.560 --> 0:28:50.320 repent of my sins. Come into my heart. I make 0:28:50.360 --> 0:28:53.680 you my Lord and save you. Friends, if you prayed 0:28:53.680 --> 0:28:56.640 that simple prayer, we believe you got born again. 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