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Break Through The Barriers of the Past

Joel Osteen
January 22, 2019 15m 28s

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In this message, Victoria will explain when you’re in emotional pain, it’s easy to shrink back in fear and allow an emotional limp to become a stronghold in your mind—a wrong way of thinking. The last thing you want to do is to step out in boldness or put yourself in a position where you can get hurt again. But you can’t allow a painful experience to trick you into thinking you’re going to have a painful life. If you find yourself shrinking back because you’re afraid you’ll be hurt again, you have to understand that God can heal what hurts! He is the mender of broken hearts. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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So after a month recovery, I saw her 0:02:02.200 --> 0:02:05.600 and immediately I wanted to know, how is your foot? 0:02:06.440 --> 0:02:09.240 She said to me, I'm now going to physical therapy. 0:02:09.960 --> 0:02:11.880 And then she began to tell me a little bit 0:02:11.919 --> 0:02:14.160 about her physical therapy sessions. 0:02:14.680 --> 0:02:17.120 And she said to me, when I first got to. 0:02:17.120 --> 0:02:23.360 Physical therapy, my therapist said, this, does your foot hurt 0:02:23.520 --> 0:02:27.920 right now? And she stopped and said, no, I'm not 0:02:28.080 --> 0:02:31.800 in any pain right now, And she said. She looked 0:02:31.880 --> 0:02:34.280 right at me and said, if you're not in pain, 0:02:35.200 --> 0:02:40.600 why are you limping. It kind of took her aback 0:02:40.720 --> 0:02:44.720 for a minute, and she said, well, I'm trying to 0:02:44.840 --> 0:02:45.960 protect my foot. 0:02:46.800 --> 0:02:48.400 I don't want to hurt it again. 0:02:48.880 --> 0:02:52.560 I don't want to do anything that'll cause me any 0:02:52.600 --> 0:02:58.400 more pain. Can you understand that line of thinking today? 0:02:59.200 --> 0:03:02.520 I certainly can. You know, when you're in pain, the 0:03:02.600 --> 0:03:05.120 last thing you want to do is start acting like 0:03:05.160 --> 0:03:07.760 you normally did. The last thing you want to do 0:03:07.840 --> 0:03:10.840 is step out in boldness. The last thing you want 0:03:10.880 --> 0:03:13.520 to do is go out on a limb, because you 0:03:13.760 --> 0:03:19.440 certainly don't want to hurt yourself again. That physical therapist 0:03:19.480 --> 0:03:23.840 looked at her and she said, I need you to 0:03:24.000 --> 0:03:28.600 quit limping. She said, if you don't begin to do 0:03:28.800 --> 0:03:33.720 and walk like you normally do, your foot will not strengthen, 0:03:33.760 --> 0:03:36.840 those ligaments will not go back in place, and you 0:03:36.920 --> 0:03:39.560 won't be able to do what you want to do. 0:03:40.160 --> 0:03:43.560 You won't be able to walk like you did before. 0:03:44.480 --> 0:03:47.280 You'll always walk with a limp. 0:03:48.480 --> 0:03:52.320 I just want to encourage every one of us to 0:03:52.480 --> 0:03:59.520 not allow pain hurts discouragement to cause us to walk 0:03:59.560 --> 0:04:01.120 within a emotional limp. 0:04:02.560 --> 0:04:04.280 Pain comes to all of us. 0:04:04.840 --> 0:04:08.480 Discouragement is a part of life, but we have to 0:04:08.680 --> 0:04:13.920 understand that God is bigger than all of those things combined. 0:04:18.800 --> 0:04:23.120 You see, my friend didn't even recognize that she was 0:04:23.160 --> 0:04:24.119 walking with a limp. 0:04:25.040 --> 0:04:27.800 She had to have her therapist tell her. 0:04:28.520 --> 0:04:31.560 You see, what she had done is she had formed 0:04:31.839 --> 0:04:36.599 what the Bible calls a stronghold in her mind, a wrong. 0:04:36.560 --> 0:04:37.880 Way of thinking. 0:04:38.520 --> 0:04:42.080 She was on the thinking pattern that she could never 0:04:42.560 --> 0:04:46.120 walk on her foot the way she used to, that 0:04:46.200 --> 0:04:50.480 it would always be less than that, this foot. 0:04:50.240 --> 0:04:53.120 Would always be weaker than the other foot. 0:04:54.240 --> 0:04:58.119 She had to understand that she could be strong again. 0:04:58.839 --> 0:05:03.839 Then she had to work through the process. She had 0:05:03.880 --> 0:05:07.160 to begin to believe, She had to begin to do 0:05:07.200 --> 0:05:10.640 the work. She had to begin to step out and 0:05:10.839 --> 0:05:14.760 watch things change. You see now she is well on 0:05:14.920 --> 0:05:19.080 her way to recovery because she made the choice to 0:05:19.240 --> 0:05:24.080 walk through that process and recognize she could be strong. 0:05:24.279 --> 0:05:26.680 And you know what, we all have to break those 0:05:26.800 --> 0:05:30.479 barriers of the past. We have to break those mindsets 0:05:30.520 --> 0:05:35.440 that says it'll never be good again, You'll never find 0:05:35.480 --> 0:05:37.040 another husband the. 0:05:36.960 --> 0:05:44.880 One you had left you. Those wounds, they hurt, they're real, 0:05:45.440 --> 0:05:50.400 but they're a lie. They're a lie. You gotta believe 0:05:50.520 --> 0:05:52.280 that you can be strong again. 0:05:53.480 --> 0:05:58.080 If you feel yourself shrinking back in fear, shrinking back 0:05:58.160 --> 0:06:02.640 because you've been hurt of afraid to try again, you 0:06:02.680 --> 0:06:04.880 can pretty much realize that. 0:06:04.920 --> 0:06:06.680 Is the enemy lying to you. 0:06:07.120 --> 0:06:11.000 Because God never decreases, He always increases. 0:06:11.680 --> 0:06:14.520 God is the God of increase. 0:06:15.400 --> 0:06:20.320 But it takes courage, it takes determination, and sometimes we 0:06:20.360 --> 0:06:23.960 need to check ourselfs to make sure we're not walking 0:06:24.360 --> 0:06:26.919 with a limp. We need to make sure that that 0:06:27.120 --> 0:06:32.720 response wasn't out of pain, that response wasn't out of defense, 0:06:33.320 --> 0:06:39.000 that that response was out of strength, confidence, and love, so. 0:06:38.880 --> 0:06:42.080 That we can keep walking this walk of faith. 0:06:42.800 --> 0:06:48.080 Listen, don't allow your past to define your future. It 0:06:48.120 --> 0:06:52.880 doesn't have to set the pace for your future. A 0:06:52.920 --> 0:06:55.400 friend of mine was telling me about her young daughter 0:06:55.440 --> 0:06:58.840 in law and how she had just found out that 0:06:59.000 --> 0:07:03.040 she was pregnant. The whole family was so excited. Her 0:07:03.080 --> 0:07:06.760 son was just thrilled. The young girl had wanted a child, 0:07:06.839 --> 0:07:08.960 so it was just the best news she could ever 0:07:09.080 --> 0:07:13.080 think of. As everyone was celebrating and all happy, it 0:07:13.200 --> 0:07:17.200 was only a short amount of time before she realized 0:07:17.560 --> 0:07:22.960 she miscarried the baby. You see, she was devastated. Her 0:07:23.040 --> 0:07:28.480 celebration turned into hurt and pain. She began to question God. 0:07:29.040 --> 0:07:32.200 She began to doubt herself. She began to think, am 0:07:32.200 --> 0:07:35.440 I ever gonna have a baby? Maybe I'm not capable 0:07:35.480 --> 0:07:38.400 of having a baby. She told her husband. She said, 0:07:38.440 --> 0:07:41.000 I don't want to try again, She said, I don't 0:07:41.040 --> 0:07:44.000 want to go there. I'm afraid that I can't make 0:07:44.040 --> 0:07:48.280 it through another painful situation like that. You see, she 0:07:48.440 --> 0:07:53.239 began limpy. She began limping, She shrunk back. She didn't 0:07:53.280 --> 0:07:56.440 act like herself. She wasn't the lively, vibrant woman that 0:07:56.560 --> 0:07:59.960 she once was. It began to affect the entire fear. 0:08:01.400 --> 0:08:05.520 You see, she was limping because of a pain that 0:08:05.600 --> 0:08:12.720 she had felt. Wasn't long after that she found serious 0:08:13.400 --> 0:08:18.200 xem and she began to listen to the. 0:08:18.120 --> 0:08:22.720 Messages of hope, of a faithful God. 0:08:23.120 --> 0:08:27.040 Of a loving God, a God of strength, a God 0:08:27.080 --> 0:08:31.240 of purpose. Day after day she listened to these messages, 0:08:31.920 --> 0:08:36.320 and it began to break down that wrong pattern of thinking. 0:08:36.880 --> 0:08:40.640 It began to build courage in her and determination. She 0:08:40.760 --> 0:08:44.960 began to think, can I do this again. In fact, 0:08:45.320 --> 0:08:50.920 the defeat and the doubt turned into hope, faith and victory. 0:08:51.600 --> 0:08:54.720 She told her husband, I want to try again to 0:08:54.800 --> 0:08:57.920 have a child. I believe that God loves me. I 0:08:58.000 --> 0:09:01.080 believe that I can do it again. And do you know, 0:09:01.240 --> 0:09:05.640 recently Christie and her husband Josh just gave birth to 0:09:05.760 --> 0:09:13.240 a beautiful baby named Mia. She fought through that barrier 0:09:13.360 --> 0:09:16.240 that would try to stop her, that would try to 0:09:16.320 --> 0:09:19.280 defeat her, that would try to change the course of 0:09:19.320 --> 0:09:25.960 her destiny, her relationship with her husband and her family line. Listen, 0:09:26.520 --> 0:09:31.400 she had to make the choice to walk through the process. 0:09:32.000 --> 0:09:37.480 Pain is real and it hurts. But let me tell you, 0:09:37.600 --> 0:09:41.720 God is the mender of broken hearts. He can heal 0:09:42.120 --> 0:09:46.320 what hurts. He can make you stronger than you've ever 0:09:46.360 --> 0:09:50.760 been before. You can't allow a bad experience to trick 0:09:50.800 --> 0:09:53.840 you into thinking you're gonna have a bad life. 0:09:54.480 --> 0:09:55.720 You got to rise up. 0:09:55.600 --> 0:10:00.199 In the strength of Almighty God and recognize, Hey, this 0:10:00.280 --> 0:10:04.320 is a limp. I wasn't designed to limp. I was 0:10:04.400 --> 0:10:08.200 designed to run. I was designed to move. I was 0:10:08.320 --> 0:10:13.560 designed to move forward in the things of God. My 0:10:13.720 --> 0:10:17.600 little nephew, Christopher, he's a big old kid, I'm telling. 0:10:17.360 --> 0:10:18.760 You that boy is so big. 0:10:19.280 --> 0:10:23.000 He plays high school football, and when he started, he 0:10:23.000 --> 0:10:26.680 he played the defense and that's a really rough, tough 0:10:26.760 --> 0:10:29.400 spot to play. And when he would come home the 0:10:29.400 --> 0:10:32.280 first couple of times, he realized the next day he'd 0:10:32.320 --> 0:10:36.319 have bruises on him and he'd think, oh man, these bruises. 0:10:37.320 --> 0:10:38.920 But he'd go back out there again. 0:10:39.800 --> 0:10:42.920 He come home, he said, I got these these bruises, 0:10:43.600 --> 0:10:47.120 but I did my best. I did good. The next 0:10:47.200 --> 0:10:49.760 day he'd go back out there. He'd come home, he said, 0:10:49.840 --> 0:10:51.359 I don't care about these bruises. 0:10:51.520 --> 0:10:53.520 We won. We won. 0:10:55.160 --> 0:11:00.400 You see, he realized from experience that those bruises didn't 0:11:00.440 --> 0:11:03.480 have to stop him. Those bruises may be part of 0:11:03.520 --> 0:11:06.720 the game, but you know what, He's on the winning team. 0:11:07.200 --> 0:11:10.120 And I want you to know today, there may be. 0:11:09.960 --> 0:11:11.640 Bumps, there may be bruises. 0:11:11.679 --> 0:11:15.520 They come to all of us, but listen, you've got 0:11:15.559 --> 0:11:19.680 one more powerful on your side. You are on the 0:11:19.800 --> 0:11:23.520 right side of God, the winning side of God. You 0:11:23.640 --> 0:11:27.520 got to say, these bruises don't matter. They're not stopping 0:11:27.600 --> 0:11:31.240 me because I am gonna win. I'm gonna come through. 0:11:31.520 --> 0:11:35.199 I am going to break through the barriers that are 0:11:35.240 --> 0:11:38.920 trying to hold me down. Do you know, God said, 0:11:38.960 --> 0:11:43.000 I haven't given you a spirit of fear. Every setback 0:11:43.400 --> 0:11:49.560 releases fear. Every past hurt promotes fear. Fear is not 0:11:49.720 --> 0:11:54.000 of God. Everything that you won't do comes from fear. 0:11:55.040 --> 0:11:58.840 Every excuse you make comes from fear. Fear of being 0:11:58.880 --> 0:12:01.600 taken advantage of, fear of being laughed at, fear of 0:12:01.600 --> 0:12:05.360 being hurt again. It's a root of fear. And God said, 0:12:05.840 --> 0:12:09.440 I haven't given you fear. So when you feel fear, 0:12:09.960 --> 0:12:12.800 you got to understand that's the enemy trying to make 0:12:12.840 --> 0:12:17.480 you limp. He's trying to make you not reach the 0:12:17.520 --> 0:12:21.959 fullness of your destiny. God said, I've given you power. 0:12:23.400 --> 0:12:25.440 You got the power of the most High God on 0:12:25.480 --> 0:12:29.200 the inside of you. Go through the process. He said, 0:12:29.200 --> 0:12:32.200 I've given you love. Can I tell you that his 0:12:32.400 --> 0:12:36.960 love broke the curse of sin and death, that his 0:12:37.240 --> 0:12:40.800 love is the one that breaks the change. There's nothing 0:12:40.920 --> 0:12:43.960 greater that you can have than the love of Almighty God. 0:12:44.760 --> 0:12:50.120 He said, I've given you a sound mind, a balanced mind, 0:12:50.559 --> 0:12:55.520 a mind that is able to discern truth from a lie, 0:12:55.760 --> 0:13:00.240 truth from a lie, fear from faith. Today, if you 0:13:00.400 --> 0:13:05.360 have the power to discern fear and faith, and I 0:13:05.480 --> 0:13:10.440 believe that you're gonna walk in faith. Sometimes we just 0:13:10.679 --> 0:13:15.160 need a reminder that we can be strong again. Listen, 0:13:15.280 --> 0:13:17.960 don't limp through this life, not when you can run 0:13:18.000 --> 0:13:20.880 through this life, not when you got the force of 0:13:20.920 --> 0:13:23.199 the most high behind you. 0:13:23.200 --> 0:13:29.920 You are on the women team. Amen. Amen. 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