16. 7 Ways For A Young Person To Get Confidence

Welcome to track #16 of Senor Epitier. Lord, have mercy. Look, clap your hands for Bishop. Bishop, listen, listen. If I've been listening to Bishop preaching for about 20. One years. I have never heard. Anything. Like what I've heard? Actually. This session is like one of those. Oh man. Supernatural Events. Sakom Kakashovsky. Tesuna Tyrell. And if you don't change. In Sibuna Shonjipa. It means the meaning. I'm. I'm giving you the meaning. Jebudon. If you live here to continue that life. Sibo quitie E sibo continue to Zhou Dona Memvi. What it means? Si la verdiere. Is that you are a fool. Tia you are and something. You were. You were created to be a fool. Tiete created that. That is your destiny, Sesata destiny. I am believing God to receive invitations. Oh yes, Lady Reverend. The. Lady Reverend Doris. I'm believing God to get invitations to assist her. Hallelujah. To be coming to Congo to do, to officiate. And. That prayer, Bishop. Pray. That is going to come to pass. God is going to distribute wives and husbands. Why? Because it is His will. Take. Out an offering right now. Give something to you can live for 400 years and not hear what? You have heard today. Give something to show God you are thanking Him for this offering. An. Outstanding, spectacular offering. You know from here. Spectacular. What a blessing. And. Everybody. I don't know when the messages that the city will be ready when I get to clockwise. No, no, when you are packing your things from, one of the things you'll be packing is your seed. In gratitude for what we have heard today. Thank you, O God. Now this seed is sealing our holiness, sealing the old chapter and answering us into a new life of legitimate holiness, a life of sanctification. Thank you for abilities to possess our bodies. Thank you for husbands, wives, thank you Lord, that we are going to let the bill doing what is normal with our bodies in the right way according to your will in. Jesus name Amen. It's too much. Wow. Hallelujah. Look. What? After this camp, you must come and bless your pastors, your pastors who brought you here, put some money in an envelope and just bless them. The pastor thank you for inviting me to come for. This Amen. Amen. We. Are going. For a. Break. Hallelujah, these are long found imposed the apropre si ru play Tom minut campus zanton de la music E4 sava que SE le momento revenir hono vie en rappa vuje cherche le le berje de la belle gise a la codesh. How many are they? De abelen peo si Dong la belle gise abelen PE document kodesh. You may be seated characteristics of people God calls. The characteristic the Jean que du appe. Hallelujah. Amen. God calls people. Du appelle le Jean. Who have failed at earlier attempts. Attempt Moses. Moiz. Went back to God. Moiz. And ask God, why is it that you have sent me when Pharaoh is not obeying me? I have come to Pharaoh to speak to him. You see when you. Are Pharaoh and the more I speak. To him. The more he becomes hardened and also the people who should be delivered have not been delivered. E le Jean Quidoir ET deliverene is upon called Libere. Sometimes when you are doing God's work. The four Compus under the fair Love you, senor. It looks like it's not working. A la pare, come see Sannie Makshpa. It looks like the church is not growing. If some come see like the Glee is negrandi spa Sannie makshpa. It looks like the work is not really doing well. Second silly travaisani Mashfa, Ramon. But one very important attitude to have when you are working for God main attitude is a never say die attitude. Say the D. Never say die, never bend, never bow, never stop. The D jamela say Tombe Amen Jame Jame jame Jame. Never stop and when it has failed before. It. Doesn't mean it will fail today. Don't forget that the wake of God is also like a seed. In Papa ublieke le le deseuner SER come in semons. The ministry is also like a seed. The minister come SER come in semons. And the word of God, the Bible tells us, is a seed. A la Para de Dion udique la para de dio sat in semons. And a seed gives fruits. In semons. Parked free. And the fruit bearing time is a seasonal time, so the fact that you have not seen fruits does not mean it's not working. The fact that there are no. Mangoes on the tree does not mean it is a dead. Tree. You just have to. Keep. Keep caring for it so when earlier attempts at doing the same thing has failed. It does not mean. That you will not do well. You see? When earlier attempts at singing have failed. It doesn't mean. You will not be a good singer. God calls failures. This way. If earlier attempts at building the follow up ministry have failed. Sitia is saying for the that the tabila ministered the sui vinapa it. Does not mean that it will not. Work A. Lot of missionaries will learn that they will go on mission the third time before it works. Boku, the mission even. Place you go there the 1st. Time it doesn't work. Premier, you. Go there again. To Uncle. And you go. Again. Moses went to the same Pharaoh. It didn't work. He came back to complain, but God sent him to the same Pharaoh again and it worked. Jesus laid hands on the boy. I never need that you created trees walking around I've. Always thought human beings. Were nice, slim and tall and fat and around. I didn't know human beings were. He laid hands again and. Also. What you call a failed. Attempt may. Actually be a build up. Because Pascal. Verse 58 of First Corinthians 15. The premier verse say second tweet. It says that. D. The second part says that our labor is not in vain in. The. It is your eyes that are not seeing the food. Site. It doesn't mean it's not working. Sometimes you're killing upon call. I recall to be in a free Pakistani mashpa. Anything you do for the Lord? Just get your fair, pull it, then you. Will add up. Savast as you think. Say all things add up. For the two shows all. Things work together. So. It may appear as if you have failed. Second City are issuing shocked. You'll be shocked. One day. I think it was. My birthday or something and some people wrote letters. To me, I'll. Never forget this. And. One sister in the church. Again said on the Glee. Wrote a beautiful letter to. Me and in the letter. She said she's been in the church for some time. Ella di Elatedon Leglis PO and Saturn on the tongue the. Story was about six years ago. Jeppal Eskis ET Paselia sizon. And she said she was almost about to give up being a Christian. Yeah, this is Ek El ET opened the the Les ET tombi Anton que Cretian. And one day she came to church on a Sunday. Angel, Ella, Denier, Leglis and demons. And that day I preached a message, a massage, and she wrote down the title of the message I preached. Ella, she said. That message turned her life around. Ella when? I read. It. I burst out laughing because. Pascal. That particular message I preached? Question. I remember very well because I have never had a bad feeling about a message I have preached. That one. What I thought was a failed. Was the single most important life changing message that that Lady ever experienced in her life. So. No experience in the Lord should be seen as a bad experience. Sidwa SV com Inexperienced. Everything is working out for your good. Tooth shows Konku O beer. Poktua, but we are human beings, so let's stay where we are. And I'm saying that what you even think you have failed, remember? Suventua that. It is Adina. Kisasa Youth. To the powerful outcome of what God is going to use you to do. Anytime you do something for Jesus. Anytime you do something for the Lord. That. Thing does not work. Remember, Remember, remember, God is using. It to. Do something very powerful for your life in your life. The ground on Tavi. The next type of the the next characteristic. La La characteristic is sweet. God calls people who are not eloquent Dear Appelle. Jean Quinn Elocon, come on. God calls people who are not eloquent. Dear Appelle Jean Quinn Elocon. Most, as Jeremiah said, Lord God. Jeremy. Behold, I cannot speak because I am a child. There are many causes of non eloquence. A. Pastor's main tool for ministry is speaking. Your main tool you will use to do the work of God. And when you are. Not eloquent. It means that you are not the one God will. Use but. The day you feel not eloquent is the day God is going to turn your tongue and give you a powerful. One of the causes of not being able to speak well is being a child. That's what Jeremiah said. I am a child, the ability to speak. Sometimes you can't speak loud. Because you don't even have the grammar. You didn't go. Properly but. I've seen I've seen pastors who did not go. To school, but don't give them powerful. Grammar. But we who went to school didn't write their notes and write the words they are using. To use one day. No matter some of you French speaking people are even going to minister and and and preach powerfully in English. God will use you powerfully in your French country, powerfully in French, British powerful in English. I see God using it for multiple languages. Put your hands together. Let's receive this afternoon. Hallelujah now. Hello. Number one. Numero. What young people must do to develop confidence. Circulation dua faire PU developela confiance. Amen. How many are young people? Do. You want to have confidence. We have a confidence. Step #1. ETA numero. Get married. Marie Vu. Step #1 get married. Amen. As soon as you get married, you become responsible and you enter a different category in the society. Day I was with a bank manager and the bank manager or chairman was telling me how a bank manager the major is chosen. Don't look President comma on Schwarzi Le J on the bank. And he was saying they have to choose somebody who is married. Yes, because when a person is married has so many implications. Implication. And then there are some jobs, they'll say married with children. Yes, certain travel with this Marie avec anfar. Because when you have a child. That was avec anfar it also. Brings to another whole set of problems. A popular problem. So there are jobs that require that. So he was explaining. I'll explicate how. Somebody who had been chosen to be a bank manager was not doing well. He. Said that the bank manager did not do well because the wife or husband of the bank manager, even though the person had written that he was married, husband was not actually there. So when the person finishes doing the bank. It. Goes home, the person is there alone other girlfriends or boyfriends will be coming to the house, you understand so the person's way of analyzing the bank was different and some boyfriends or girlfriends came to the. And influence the manager. Influence. Brought them into a lot of problems. Problem. So that is why. Sepukwa. He was saying that they are. They are saying that the person is married. It is a the person in Mahiye. But actually they were not really married. Because my. Wife. Was not. And they know once you are married, some implications will happen. Yes, certain consequence. So if you are a young person. Don't see with a Gen. and you. Want to enter into a level of confidence for your life? For what the. One of the first things to do in the. Premiere shows are fair. Is to marry. Amen. It puts you in a group. All those who are married, raise your hand there you are in that group. All those who are not married, then you are in the children's group. And. When you are going to be a pastor, you have to have been in society in a way people do not take you to be silly. Because. Sometimes when you are going to talk to. People. They take you as a kind of senior, overzealous brother who is talking. To. So being married is important. It is important. During the break some people were telling me they have so many difficulties, the problem in getting married. The ASO Marie, the Lobola, La Dots. The dowry. LA dots. Is a lot, the parents did not allow, they are away from home, so many problems. When I had all the problems, I started to feel sleepy. Because Bhaskar, these are not problems. Somebody problem that cannot be overcome. I don't want to sing a song. You see, your problem is a mountain. Why? What problem? Your problem is a river, your problem is a lake. If you come to a country and you tell me. If we did. When we were crossing the country. We've seen a river. What shall we do? You have any advice? Cross. The river. What? Should we do? These are normal problems, problem everybody. So if you use that. You. Are not wise. 5000 Ghana. Cities. Then. I love. Fact today. Save 5000. Negotiate with the people by the end of the year. I have all offended. You got it and you pay it. Marriage is not cheap. The reason why we do all this dowry so that you cannot easily walk away from the marriage when you feel feverish, when your fever come or your evil spirit, you remember I did a lot of things enter this marriage. I had to move to the left to the right at. What? Upstairs, downstairs, everywhere, organizing. A lot of people were there. I did everything. I got the Y. That's why we don't just say. Do. You have a beloved whose brother has a beloved. She's here. I want a beloved who is here. Is there somebody here who is here? Where is your beloved? Come here. Right now. Come here, right now. What is Mama's beloved's name? Muriel. OK, come. Do you, Muriel? Do you lose? Pardon. Yes. What? We can't say yes. Yes, I. Love. Him. OK. Thank you. Messi. Come closer OK from today, husband and wife. Go, go, go. OK, next point. OK, the next one. I don't know. They are wasting our time. Just what else do you want? Wait, let me ask you a question during the wedding. Is it not? Me that I will say you are husband and wife. Somebody. Is insulting me. Do you want a visa from? Nigeria to come and office in the wedding. I don't know why they are not accepting their. Marriage. They look so reluctant. What's wrong? Do. You have the. Key. Why? The key. You don't want the key. It's not a proper wedding. Somebody is giving you a ring, you see now. You. See, it doesn't want to. Accept it. That is why it's a declaration. That is why we do a lot of different things. This is marriage. I just did it casually. You are married, you don't like it. I. Declare. That. Your husband and wife together in the name of the Lord, you see. OK, sit down, sit down. What a. Wedding the bride The bride is not impressed. We didn't even kiss him. So when you come and tell me you don't have money for the dowry? Making it difficult. Making it difficult for a reason. It is difficult to marry for a good reason. OK, come closer. No to him. To where are you going? You are husband and wife. Sit down. Anybody else? Sit by. Sit by 123. OK, stand up. Is that how to marry? So don't complain anymore. That is difficult. We have to do this, We have to pay this, We have to do this. It is good. It is good, so do it. Stop complaining otherwise you will not respect the relationship. You have been sleeping with each other all this time that one does not even let you know you are married. Some of you when you sleep with your husband or your wife. You. Will be thinking of other people you sleeping with. This one is not behaving like the other one. The other one was frisky. Frisky, wriggling like a worm. But this one is like a wooden board. Some. Of you will be remembering the pornography, this one is like that girl that I saw who was jumping and laughing. So the sex even is not letting you think you are married. So much with so many different men and boys and girls. They are not telling you. Shame on you for not marrying. Just sleeping with each other all the time, spoiling your lives. What God has made you will only find in the end that it's better. You will think that it's your. Always it may look difficult in the end, the real best way. Take your time. This is my wife, this is my husband and that is it. From that the only person any idea you have about sex you. Implement it. Any imagination you have, that person, all visions you have who displayed on that person, every pornography you want to watch your husband, that is your pornography life. Pornography and. You are the actor and the director, so marry before SO. Marry. Stop complaining, I am expecting to see most of you being married soon. Someone told me something. Was. Not telling me, he was saying in lighthouse, a lighthouse, they like to marry themselves. Because it's moved you from a category of a child. Category downfall. Straight I'm talking about how to develop confidence. Move. Into a new. Category Category. You have done engagement when I was going to marry my wife. I have to get aunties that I don't know, relatives have never, I don't see them in my life. From that day. They don't do anything in my life. They have to go to the western region. My father-in-law said that his house you are going to marry my daughter. They wrote a list Buy suitcase. I can't get the suitcase anywhere. With. To. Report to my father. Do a customary marriage. Pale adults Fell adults. Between me, we, and my beloved. My B enemy. In 1980. 9 Kathu van Nuf Yeah, we. Are you understanding what I'm talking about? Who? Companies occasion, Susan kind of UDI. Do you understand what I'm talking about? Who? Companies occasion buddy. Is it fantastic? It's fantastic. So you can't easily just go away. Don't. Like your face anymore? No. Don't like your attitude? Attitude. No attitude. No food, looking nice, not looking nice looking, young, looking old. We are in it. It's a serious thing. So. We are inside. The. Box. One day I went to a cemetery. This cemetery had different graves. One of the graves and they have two places on the left. He. Had. What? And I saw a man. 'S name. The Chu. Chimkung. It's your Chu Chimkung. Born 1929, died more 1988 then I saw on the right. At what? Another plaque. Not plaque. They are written missus Chu Ching Kong. Miss Madame Chu Ching Kong. Julia Chu, Ching Kong. Julia Ching Kong. Born 1935 Minister Transank died More Dash. Siri. Dash, Siri, it's not yet dead. It's not dead. That's that's the place. That's. The place. She's coming there. What a shock. Yes, that is the place where she's coming. One day I went to a. Funeral attended a funeral. His wife was alive, so when I got. To the. I've never seen. A grief that is so deep when I go inside. So they finished the service and we all left. The only party, when we got to the car park, I told my friend let us go back, I want to see something. So everybody had gone and I went. When I got there, I was standing there. Then suddenly. A. Big black man. Hello, Sir. Can. I help you. I said oh please so. What you want? What you see is downstairs. That one is downstairs. This is a double Decker. So where they have put the pasta? Pasta. After he's done, that's the ground floor and showed me the slab. The wife who was just, she had just left. The wife have just left upstairs and downstairs they are going to sleep on top of each other. And they bought, they bought it, they bought it together, bought it for the two of them. Pull it in that place downstairs so it's a concrete. Concrete like this and then the slab goes to rest on a. Leg and. Then the top is still the concrete. Then they have the second. Cover. They put the second cover on it, but the top is empty. That is the meaning of the Let us do part and then. We are continuing. One day I went to another. Cemetery. Cemetery is for rich people, so. Hello. I saw a small house. Have you in Petit Maison? Yeah, a small. House in Petit Maison. I thought that the house was, I don't know what I can say, something like a. Security house, two or three of them. I said what is that? It is for a family. It is a great, the man said. I will show you took me to the house. Said this is the family of sex. For me, the person. Crown on the left, you enter the house. We are three on this side. Twice. Another three and they close it and then it's a house and you are not in the ground. So we don't have marriage. That's an implication. That is why. When Princess Diana. Died. To England. It's not, it's a. Covenant. Serious union. Serious. Help you all so I don't want anybody to complain. Again, upstairs and downstairs. They are fitting the date. Somebody is on the left written his name when he was born, when he died, and then on the right the wife's name already the day that he was born. And. The day that he died. So #1 taken seriously. To. Do what? How many have decided to marry from today? Amen. Will you marry? Will. You stop fornicating and marry. The key to stopping fornicating 1 of it is to marry. It. Doesn't solve it completely, but it helps #2 Seven ways for young people to develop confidence. Number one, marriage #2 you can gain confidence by reading. On confidence on this zone. A lot knowledge comes by reading. Amen. Amen, till I come give attendance to reading. I'll elect you. Amen. When you read, you get it. You learn. A. Lot Boku, if you if you don't read, you can lead. When you read a lot, it sounds like you know a lot of things. When I'm speaking to you, does it seem like I know a lot of things? Meanwhile, I don't know a lot of things when you read things. You. Know things, but at least I know more. I don't know much, but I know more than you because you don't know much at all. My small one that I knew sounds like I knew a lot if you read. Nobody is there. You suddenly know a lot of things, that's why people will follow someone. They sense knows something. Even if you are young, they will. Follow you they. Will follow you, yeah. One day I met with six men who didn't have beloved all of them. 2. They were not readers. In a Lizepa. They were not readers. In a Lizepa. They did not read their Bible. They were not spiritual. Spiritual. They were not. We were not readers. No, no girl wanted to follow the. Who is Chabafor's beloved Antoinette? Antoinette. Marie Antoinette, you are following who? What does he have? Just killer. Nothing. No, be serious. What does he? Have Bishop he had. He has nothing. He's now starting his life. Does he have a car? 22 Does he have a house? No. Not even a land. Does. He have money. No. Has he been buying clothes for? You. And. You are following somebody who doesn't have anything. It's amazing, isn't it? But your beloved, where is he? What is he doing? He's a missionary. He's working for the UN. He's. Working for FAO he's working for. NGO at. All working for. Eco Bank. Really. And he has how many people in his church? Now he has 14, so you. Are. Going to follow. Somebody with 14 members doesn't have a car, doesn't have a house, doesn't have anything. He has 14 members. We are going to follow him. So you see a beautiful girl, she's following somebody. He doesn't have money, doesn't have anything. 14 people. You see even when you don't have. Anything a. Lot of girls would like to follow you. Because they know you have something inside this guy, some wisdom in him, suggests I will follow him with his fourteen members, without money, without anything. I would like to follow him Swift. So that's why I said. To you if you want. To move. Into a new. Follow him because of the anointing and the wisdom and the knowledge and the understanding. So you are entering another category. You not category. When you when you marry, you change your group. When you reach and get knowledge, you change your group another section. You are. Very young. And that's what. I want to say even though you are young. #3 Young people can develop confidence by listening to CDs and watching videos. Wow, wow. Listening to CDs and watching videos. Amen. Same idea when you watch videos. You suddenly. Look, I'm not talking about Rambo, Jurassic Park or Nigerian movies. I'm talking about preaching videos, wildlife videos. This morning I showed you about some gags. That were fighting you change your. Category. I see you changing your. Category #4. You you can become wise by studying history, young people, you can become wise. By. Studying history? Are you listening to me? You must study history. Upon. And you have to read history, watch history, study history, look at history. And. Be blessed history, any kind of history. Is a. Blessing history is the spirit of knowledge, the spirit of understanding, the comprehension, and especially spirit of wisdom the suggest I wisdom. I suggest. I dwell prudence. Avec la prudence prudence la prudence. Is discretion practical? You are not practical when you don't know history. You're not practical when you don't know history and when you know. History. Know exactly what is going to happen, young person. He has the theories. This is what? I will do. This. Is my aim. Sesame Objective. This is what I think, but a person who knows history will become like this, This one, Sir, it will become like this one, Sir. It's going to turn like and history always repeat the thing that is going to happen exactly, exactly in about 20 years and 30. Years there. Will. Come. Another person just like. But. The people who will be living them, who are now about 14 years by that time 34 when they don't read history, exactly what they don't read history. But now some of them are only 12 years, so they don't understand the. You. You were there and you will say this one is the same as this will happen. I've seen one before. What will happen? So reading don't leave someone who is young and makes him as it is very wise. Even though you are a young person, you can become very wise by studying history. I study history. I didn't study history. I I don't know why I studied geography. Geography. Instead of history. What a mistake. Because of that, I just know there's only one thing I remember. Geography. And I wish I had studied. History the only. Thing I remember from geography. Oxbow. Lake. Do you remember Oxbow Lake? And the other thing I remember is convection rain, cyclonic rain. And. The other thing I remember in geography is 4 reasons why there is not much rain in Accra. Yes, did you, did you learn that in the four reasons? One of them is this mountain when the rain is coming to Accra, when it reaches here, all empties here and we are so dry in Accra. Reason is because there is a cold. Water. Yeah, the low fat. In the sea of Accra, Dhaka, there is a cold water there. So when the rain is coming meets the cold water, it rains low fat on the sea and it doesn't come in. And then the third reason is I think Accra is flat the trees. And. Then there's a fourth reason. Yeah, that's why there's not much rain in across. These are the only things I remember geography, but today I'm studying J3D African history. African. History of Mobutu This was the Mobutu I'm studying. J2D History of Charles. Taylor calling. The history of Liberian civil war. The the the the scarce civil the Liberia Bocasa, the Bocasa. Apartheid. And so on. Idi Amin. I have videos of Idi Amin the. Video the Idi. Amin, I've seen him is a complete. Illiterate. Complete. Complete Who became the President of Uganda? Are. You listening? Amen. Hallelujah now. Hello. Number one. Numero. What young people must do to develop confidence. Circulation Dwafair PU Developer Confiance. Amen. How many are young people? Do you want to have confidence? Will have confidence. Step #1. ETA numero. Get married. Step number one, get married. Amen. As soon as you get married, you become responsible and you enter a different category in the. One day I was with a bank manager and the bank manager or chairman was telling me how a bank manager is chosen. And he? Was saying they have to choose somebody who is married. Because. When a person is married has so many implications. Implication. And then there are some jobs they will say married with children, he. Has certain travel with this Marie avec alpha. Because when you have a child. That was avec alpha it also. Brings to another whole set of problems. A popular problem. So there are jobs that require that. So he was explaining. I'll explicate how. Somebody who had been chosen to be a bank manager. Was not. Doing well. He. Said that the bank manager did not do. Well, because. The wife or husband of the bank manager. Even though the person had written that he was married, the husband was not actually there. So when the person finishes doing the bank. The person is. There alone, other girlfriends or boyfriends will be coming to the house you understand so the person's way of analyzing the bank was different and some boyfriends or girlfriends came to the. And influence the manager. Influence. Brought them into a lot of problems. Problem. So that is why Sepukwa, he was saying that they are, they are saying that the person is married. It is a person in. But actually they were not really married. Because the. Son or wife? Was not. And they know once you are married, some implications will happen. Yes, certain consequence. So if you are a young person. Don't see with a Gen. and you. Want to enter into a level of confidence for your life? For what the. One of the first things to do. In the Premier, shows are fair. Is to marry. Amen. It puts you in a group. All those who are married raise your hand. There you are in that group. All. Those who are. Not married. Then you are in the children's group. And. When you are going to be a pastor, you have to have been in society in a way people do not take you to be silly. Because. Sometimes when you are going to talk to people, they take you as a kind of senior over zealous brother who is talking to. So being married is important. It is important. During the break, some people were telling. Me. They have so many difficulties. The problem in getting married. So Marie the lobola, la dot. The Dori, the parents do not allow, they are away from home. So many problems. When I had all the problems, I started to feel sleepy. Because Oscar, these are not problems. Somebody problem that cannot be overcome. I don't want to sing a song. You see, your problem is a mountain. Why? What problem? Your problem is a river. Your problem is a lake. Yeah, second luck. If you come to a country and you tell me. If we did. When we were crossing the country. We've seen a river. What shall we do? Do you have any advice? Cross the river. These are normal problems. Problem. Everybody. So if you use that. You. Are not wise. 5000. Ghana. Then. I love. That today save 5000, negotiate with the people by the end of the year you got it and you pay it. The reason why we do all this dowry so that you cannot easily walk away. From. The marriage when you feel feverish, when your fever comes or your evil spirit, you remember I did a lot of things. Enter this marriage. I had to move to the left, to the right, upstairs, downstairs, everywhere, organizing. A lot of people were there. I did everything. I got the wife. You have a beloved whose brother has a beloved. She's here. I want a beloved who is here. Is there somebody here who is here? OK. Who's that meme? Where is your beloved? Come here. Right now. Come here. Right now. Come here, right now. What is Meme's beloved's name? Muriel. OK, Come. Do you? Muriel. Do you lose? Pardon. Yes. What? We can't say yes. Yes, I. Love. Him. OK. Thank you. Come closer OK from today, husband and wife. That's a room upstairs for you. OK, next point. OK, the next one. I don't know. They are wasting our time. Just what else do you want? Wait, let me ask you a question. During the wedding, is it not me that I will say you are husband and wife? Somebody is insulting me. Do you want a Bishop from Nigeria to come and officially? I don't know why they are not accepting their marriage. They look so reluctant. What's wrong? Do you have the king? Why the King? You don't want the key proper wedding. Somebody is giving you a ring. You see now. You. See, he doesn't want to. Accept it. That is why, that is why we do a lot of different things. This is marriage, I said. You are married. You don't like it? It's the same thing I declare. I declare that. Your husband and wife together in the name of the Lord. You see? OK, sit down. Sit down. What a wedding. The bride. The bride is not impressed. We didn't even kiss him. So when you come and tell me you don't have money for the difficult, difficult for a reason. Make it difficult for it is. Difficult to marry for a good reason. OK, come closer. No to him. Where are you going? OK, Your husband and wife sit down. Anybody else? Sit by. Sit by. 123 change. OK, stand up. Is that how to marry? So don't complain anymore. That. Is difficult. We have to do this, we have to pay this, we have to do this. It is good, it is good. Stop complaining, otherwise you will not respect the relationship. Sleeping with each other all this time that one does not even let you know you are married. Some. Of you when you sleep with your husband or your wife. You. Will be thinking of other people you sleeping with. This one is not behaving like the other one. The other one was frisky. Frisky, wriggling like a wind. But this one is like a wooden board. Some. Of you will be remembering the pornography this one is like that girl that I saw who are jumping and laughing. So the sex isn't is not letting you think you are married. Don't. Win because you love it so much with. So. Many different men and boys and girls. You're not telling. You come and do pay this. Don't come here when you come here when you do everything. Shame on you for not marrying. Just sleeping with each other all the time. You will find in the end that it's better you think that it's your. Always it may look difficult in the end, the real best way. Take your time. This is my wife, this is my husband. From that the only person any idea you have about sex you. Implement it. Any imagination you have, that person, all visions you have who displayed on that person, every pornography you want to watch your husband, that is your pornography life. Pornography and. You are the actor and the director, so marry. Stop. Complaining. I am expecting to see most of you being married soon. Somebody told me something. Was. Not telling me he was saying lighthouse, a lighthouse. They like to marry themselves. They thought they were saying something. Negative. I always encourage you first. Question. You have a question because it's moved you from a category of a child straight. I'm talking about how to develop confidence. Move. Into a new category. You have done. Engagement. When I was going to marry my wife. I have to get that. I don't know. Relatives have never. I don't see them in my life. They don't do anything in my life. They had to go to the western region. My. Father-in-law said that his house you are going to marry my daughter. And. Then. Get cash. With. To. Report to my father. To a customary marriage. Pale adults fell adults. Between me, we, and my beloved. My B enemy. In 1989 and. Kathu Van Nuf, Yeah. We are you understanding what I'm talking? About who companies occasion she's I'm kind of do. You understand what I'm talking about? Is it fantastic? It's fantastic. So you can't easily just go away. Don't. Like your face anymore? No. Don't like your attitude? Attitude not comportable. No attitude. But but comportable. Food. No food, looking nice, not looking nice looking, young looking. Old. We are in it. So we are inside the box. Some downsets What? Boxes. One day I went to a cemetery. This cemetery has different graves. One of the graves and they have two places. Yeah, we do. Plus. On the left the. Rush. He had what? And I saw a man. 'S name. The Chu Chimkung. It's your chimkung. Born 1929. Minovsa Vent. Nuf. Died. More. 1988. Minovsa, Katro, Benwitz. Then I saw on the right. At what? Another plaque. Not plaque. They have written Mrs. Chu Ching Kong. Miss Madame Chu Ching Kong. Julia Chu Ching Kong, born 1930. 5 Dash Dash. It's not yet dead. It's not dead. That's that's the place. She's coming there. What a shock. Shock. Yes, where she's coming. One day I went to a. Funeral his wife was alive so when I got. To the. I've never seen. A grief that is so deep when I go inside. So they finished the service and we all. Left the only party. When we got to the car. Park, I told my friend, let us go back, I want to see something. So everybody had gone. And I went when I got there. Then suddenly. A. Big black man. Hello, Sir. Can I help you? What you see is downstairs. That one is downstairs. This is a double Decker. So where they have put the pasta? Pasta. After he's done, that's the ground floor. Shows me the slab. That is for the wife who was just, she had just left. The wife have just left upstairs and downstairs they are going to sleep on top of Italy. And they bought, they bought it, they bought it together, bought it for the two of them. Pull it in. That place downstairs. So it's. A. Concrete. Concrete like this and then the slab goes to rest on a leg. And. Then the top is still the concrete and they have the second cover. They put the second cover on it, but the top is empty. That is the meaning of the Let us do part and then. We are continuing. One day I went to another. Cemetery. This cemetery is for rich people. It is rich. So. Hello. I saw a small house. Have you in Petite Maison? Yeah, a small house. In petite Maison. I thought that the house was, I don't know what, I can say something. Like. A. Security. House. Said this is a family of 6. Not saying for me the C person. Crown on the left, you enter the house. We are three on this side, you are not in the ground. So we talk of marriage has an implication that is why when. Princess Diana died. Come to Paris, take his wife was fornicating to England. It's a covenant serious union. Serious. Help you all. Who would? So I don't want anybody to complain. Again. They are fitting the date. Somebody is on the left written his name, when he was born, when he died, and then on the right the wife. 'S name already the day that he was born and. The day. That he. Died. So #1 taken seriously. To. Do what? How many have decided to marry from today? Amen. Will you marry? Will. You stop fornicating. The key to stopping fornicating 1 of it is to marry. It. Doesn't solve it completely, but it helps #2 Seven ways for young people to develop confidence. Number one, get married #2 you can gain confidence by reading on. Confiance on Lizong. A lot knowledge comes by reading. Amen. Amen, till I come give attendance to reading. I'll elect you. Amen. When you read, you get it. You learn. A. Lot boku, if you if you don't read, you can lead. When you read a lot, it sounds like you know a lot of things. When I'm speaking to you, does it seem like I know a lot of things? Meanwhile, I don't know a lot of things. When you read things, you get to know things, but at least I know more. I don't know much, but I know more than you because you don't know much at all. My small one that I knew sounds like I knew a lot. If you read, you suddenly know a lot of things. So, hey, Tony. That's why people will follow someone. The sense knows something, even if you are young, they'll. Follow you. They'll follow you. One day I met with six men who didn't have beloved. All. Of them two, they were not readers. Ineli Zeppa. They were not readers. Ineli Zeppa. They did not read their Bible. Ineli zeppa they. Were not spiritual. Spiritual. They were not. They were not readers. Ineli zeppa no no girl wanted to follow the. Who is Cheba? First, beloved Antoinette. Antoinette. You are following who? What does he have? Nothing. No, be serious. What does he? Have. He has nothing. He. Is now starting his life. Does he have a car? Does he have a house? No. No, not giving a land. Does he? Have money? No. Has he been buying? Clothes for you. And. You are following somebody who doesn't have anything. It's amazing, isn't it? But but your, your, your, your beloved. Where is he? What is he? Doing. He is a missionary. He. Is working for the UN he is working for. NGO. Really. And he has how many people in his chest? For now, he has 14. So you are. Going to. Follow somebody with 14 members, doesn't have a car, doesn't have a house, doesn't have anything. He has 14 members. You are going to follow him. So you see a beautiful girl, she's following somebody. He doesn't have money, doesn't have anything. 14 people, 14 even when you don't. Have anything? A lot of girls would like to follow you. This guy, there's some wisdom in here. I will follow him with his fourteen members, without money, without anything. I would like to follow him Swift. So that's why. I. Said to you if you want to. Move. Into. A new. Because of the anointing and the wisdom and the knowledge and the understanding. You are entering another category category. When you When you marry you change your group. When you reach and get knowledge, you change your group another section. You are very young and that's what. I want to say even though you are young. #3 Young people can develop confidence by listening to CDs and watching videos. Wow, wow. Listening to CDs and watching videos. Amen. Same idea many days when you watch videos. The video. You suddenly look, I'm not talking about Rambo, Demolition Man, Demolition Man, Jurassic Park or Nigerian movies. I'm. Talking about preaching videos, wildlife videos, this money I show you about some ducks. That were. Fighting, I explained to you. Look. Like I know about from watching. At least I've watched even if I don't. Know you change your category. I see you changing your category. Number. 4 you You can become wise by studying history, young people, you can become wise. By. Studying history? Are you listening? To me. You must study history. Upon. And you have to read history, watch history, study history, look at history. And. Be blessed history, any kind of history. Is a. Blessing history is the spirit of knowledge. The. Spirit of understanding, and especially Spirit of Wisdom, High Wisdom. I suggest. I dwell prudence. Avec la prudence prudence la prudence is discretion a la discretion. You are not practical when you don't. Know history. You're not practical when you don't know history and when you know. History. Know exactly what is going to happen, young person. He has the theories. This is what? I will do. This. Is my aim. Sesame Objective. This is what I think, but a person who knows history will become like this, This one, Sir, it will become like this one, Sir. It's going to turn like and history always repeats the thing that is going to happen exactly, exactly in about 20 years and 30. Years there. Will come another person just like. But. The people who will. Be living then. Who are now about 14 years by that time, 3440. 4. When they don't read history exactly. Because. They don't read history. Some of them are only 12 years, so they don't understand the news. And you will. Say this one is the same as. This will happen, I've seen one before. This what will happen? So reading don't listen. Help someone who is young and makes him as it is old. Evaluation This is. Very wise. Even though you are a young person, you can become very wise by studying history. I study history. I didn't study history in. School. I don't know why I studied. Geography. Instead of. History. What a mistake. Because of that, I just know there's only one thing I remember. Geography. And I wish I had studied this. The only thing I remember from Oxbow. Lake. Do you remember Oxbow Lake? And the other thing I remember is convection rain, cyclonic rain. And. The other thing I remember in geography is 4 reasons why there is not much rain in Accra. Yes, did you did you learn that in geography? The four reasons, one of them is this mountain. When? The rain is coming to Accra when it reaches here. It's all empty here and we are so dry in Accra. The. Second reason is because there is a cold water. Yeah, the low fat. In the sea of Accra there is a cold water there. So when the rain is coming meets the cold water and it rains low fat on the sea and it doesn't come in. And then the third reason is I think Accra is flat the trees. And. Then there's a fourth reason. Yeah, that's why there's not much rain in The Only Things I. Remember. Geography, but today I'm studying J3D African history. This was African. History of Mobutu This was the mobutu. This was a banga banga. I'm studying J3D history of Charles. Taylor. And Sargendo History of rollings. This was the rollings. The history of Liberian civil war. The list the the scarcity, the Liberia, Boccasa, the Boccasa Apartheid, the Apartheid. And so on. Idi Amin. I have videos of Idi Amin. The video, The Idi. Amin, I have seen him is a complete. Illiterate. Complete. Complete Who became the President of Uganda? The new president of Uganda. Are you listening?